In the age of instant gratification and sexual freedom, one line cuts through the noise like a blade of truth:
“Better dey use condom make she no go carry belle born for you when you are not even married. If you no buy kiss use , you go end up buying KissKid.”
Let that sink in.
Because behind the humour lies a serious truth — many young people today are living with the consequences of temporary pleasure.
The Rise of Casual Intimacy, The Fall of Personal Responsibility
Sex is easy. Cheap even. One look, one smile, one drink, one text, and it’s on.
But here’s what most people forget: Sex is not just fun — it’s power. It’s potential. It’s responsibility.
Every time you unzip without protection, you’re playing Russian Roulette with your future:
Unplanned pregnancies.
STDs.
Broken dreams.
Lifelong financial pressure.
Emotional baggage.
Some of us joke about it—“Na just cruise.”
But what happens when the “cruise” leads to a child you’re not ready for, with someone you barely know, under circumstances you never planned?
You don’t just buy “Kiss” (pleasure), now you’re stuck with “KissKid” (a lifelong responsibility).
And in most cases, both lives are affected—the man, the woman, and most tragically, the innocent child.
Sex Without Sense is a Setup
Let’s talk facts:
Over 7 million unplanned pregnancies occur in Nigeria annually.
A majority happen among unmarried youths between 18-30.
Most of them were never ready—financially, emotionally, spiritually.
What does this lead to?
Abandoned children.
Single mothers struggling.
Men ducking responsibilities.
Increased poverty.
Broken homes before they ever formed.
And all this started with just “small enjoyment,” with no plan for the aftermath.
Condoms Are Not Just Rubber, They Are Wisdom
You wouldn’t drive a car without brakes.
You wouldn’t jump out of a plane without a parachute.
So why sleep with someone without protection?
Using a condom isn’t just about avoiding pregnancy — it’s about protecting your goals, your dreams, your health, your peace.
It’s about understanding that you’re not just playing — you’re planting. And every action today has a fruit tomorrow.
“But I Love Her…” or “She Said She’s Safe…”
Love does not erase consequences.
Lust never asks for permission.
And assumptions have ruined more lives than accidents.
Many guys trusted “she said she’s safe.”
Only to hear a few weeks later: “I’m late.”
Then what?
She’s crying.
You’re panicking.
Your plans are on hold.
And boom — adulthood hits you with a slap of reality.
The Real Men Plan Ahead
Real men protect:
Their future.
Their partner.
Their peace of mind.
It’s not “unromantic” to use a condom.
It’s unwise not to.
If you can’t handle the consequence, you shouldn’t engage in the act.
If you’re not ready for a baby, don’t act like a baby-maker.
Final Words: Enjoy With Wisdom or Regret Without Mercy
The next time the heat rises and your hormones scream louder than your logic, remember this line:
“If you no buy Kiss, you go buy KissKid.”
It’s not a joke.
It’s a warning.
It’s a mirror.
It’s your life.
Enjoy yourself, yes.
But enjoy with sense.
Because one moment of pleasure can cost you a lifetime of pressure.
Let’s be guided. Country Hard.
